Monday, February 9, 2009

Preg-o my Egg-o!! (adding to the story)


Ok, so usually the first clear answer is enough...
























But I needed 5 more to be really sure...not to mention a blood test.

Well, I was only guessing on the date, which I figured was sometime early to mid October, but it's actually September 29, which potentially could still be October...guess we'll see.
Ok, so for the sake of telling the whole story, here it is... (I'll try to stick to the sweetened condensed version, but I'll only try.)

Miscarriage #1 happened just 2 months after our wedding! Yikes! We definitely were suprised considering the lengths we'd gone to for "protection." But, it definitely got us thinking. I've known since I was about 15 or 16 that I have a condition called PCOS; in short, I have numerous overgrown cysts on my ovaries (too much info? Then you don't know me very well!)


So, we decided that we probably ought to start trying in case it took us a long time. (And it did)

14 months went by with 3, possibly 4 periods; 2 of which were miscarriages, 1 (the "possible" one) lasted about 2 minutes and 1 lasted exactly 1 day shy of 4 months long!!! On my list of fun things to do, that ranks somewhere below sitting in a bathtub full of scissors. So, I went back on the pill for my sanity and to attempt to get into a little better shape.

This is where we insert a story tangent (yep, I'm good at those!)
Many of you know my struggle to lose weight. I kept slowly gaining weight despite some serious efforts to lose it! I did weight watchers (lost 10 lbs and kept it off), worked with personal trainer number 1, gained 2 lbs. Worked with personal trainer number 2 doing "The Biggest Loser" up in Logan, where I also had 2 nutritionists to work with. I got into great shape as far as how far, fast and long I could run and swim etc., and my clothes fit slightly differently, but after 3 months of being INCREDIBLY dedicated, working with the trainer 5 times/week for 1 hour and then 6 days a week on my own for 1.5 hrs/day, eating 1200 (VERY HEALTHY) calories/day with a deficit of nearly 3500-4000/day; By all accounts, I should have been loosing about a pound a day according the the math that everyone swears by, but instead I lost 4 lbs (which I gained back). So, for the next 3 months, I rebelled and litterally didn't exercise and ate pretty much whatever I wanted and low and behold, I lost 2 lbs! A little messed up if you ask me.

In the mean time, my cute mommy was dropping weight like crazy! And so were my inlaws! My mom lost over 40 lbs in 2008 (You're beautiful and you rock mom!!)

Isn't she hot??



Sickies! :)

And then of course my inlaws were dropping weight faster than I could blink! I think my father-in-law, Guy is already up to around 150 lbs!! I wish I had a more recent photo to show off since they've continued to loose MUCH more!


(I'm so proud of you guys!!)


Needless to say, I was VERY inspired! And so was Ty. So we decided to get to the bottom of things and figure out how to Git-r-done! So we pulled out our "hot" photos...you know the ones we wish to burn, but keep them out of sheer morbid curiousity.

Doesn't seem too bad....but oh, it gets worse, believe you me!

This is where ty gets mad at me for posting these, but lets be honest, he can hold his weight REALLY well....JERK!

Oh my my....I've seriously dreaded putting these up! But alas, here's the dirty dirty truth!












You might be asking yourself, "How did this happen?" Ok, YOU might not be, but I was!

But then I found out some interesting information one day while searching the web about fertility (as, at the time, we had decided to go off the pill again). I found an article about insulin resistance...which I thought I might have. And truly, it was the answer to all my problems; my unexplained weight issues and infertility. The gist: my insulin is all out of whack! Without the right food combinations, my insulin spikes and thus stores whatever I've just eaten as fat immediately. Not very thrilling. Because of the constant commotion in my body with the hormones and whatnot, I also don't generally ovulate. Also, not fun. The answer: Protein baby!

I got on the same diet program as my mom and my inlaws and 3 months later, here I am and Ty, each nearly 50 lbs lighter!!


(sorry for the re-post, just driving the point home)



So, YAY for us! And I almost got to my goal weight before getting preg-o, which is pretty dang exciting, and now I know exactly how to lose the weight in the future!

Now, tying up the rest of the original story; in the fall, Ty and I found out that FOR SURE he would be deploying sometime later in 2009. Immediately, Ty and I both thought only of one thing, a baby. While we had been trying for all of this time, we hadn't gone the route of fertility treatments yet, so it was time. So, we were about to start fertility treatments when my body started to change...I won't say how exactly, but you mothers know exactly what I'm talking about! I didn't believe it was possible at first considering my history, and the fact that it had been MANY MANY months since my last cycle, but I was sure I had to be pregnant. So with fertility treatments just 1 week away from starting, I took a test....and here we are!

17 comments:

Becca Jo said...

I'm so happy for you guys!

leah said...

Yay for babies! And being skinny- I feel so jealous right now (I'm a big fat blob). We love and miss you guys!

Cassia Leigh said...

Thanks Becca! And leah, you're a freakin' liar!! You look so cute and SKINNY pregnant! I hope ONLY my belly grows like yours!

Our Family said...

What a sweet story! So happy for you!

Tammy said...

I'm so glad that things worked out. Kids really are so much fun! I just laughed when I saw all those tests - my sis-in-law did the same thing. Congrats!!

The Maughan Family said...

You are so awesome! I look back at our running together in high school and smile :)! Way to be healthy, exercise and be prego!

Cassia said...

Thanks guys!!

Britt's Blog said...

I know you guys look SO great! You have all inspired me too! and apparently the protein really does work because I haven't had a cycle since Dill's birth, and the last two months I have had them! Yikes! that's a good yikes! I liked the 5 tests! Funny chick!

Anonymous said...

Hey, this is MOM! What a funny read! WE are really happy too. Just a reminder, we put your nome in the temple 3 times too, so I am sure you had EXTRA help!
Love, you guys!

Georganne said...

Congratulations you guys! I am so excited for you. (Well, not for the whole deployment thing. That sucks.) Good luck!

Anonymous said...

Such a good story Cassia!! You're looking hot girl!!!! :) good things happen to good people, wooohooo for that

The Jacksons said...

That's so great. Cute name love it!

The Jacksons said...

Maybe I should try it too, I have conditions that are almost the smae as what you do. I would love to be able to drop the weight. How did you find all the info on what you did? Infact all my sisters and I have those problems, they have had many struggles with weight and getting prego.

Cassia said...

It's a sucky situation for sure Chandra, but, at least from my experience (and a lot of others I've met along the way) one that can really be helped, if not cured by diet! The clinic I went to and would go to 100 times over is MD medical diet weight loss. It's located in Orem, Salt Lake, and Ogden! It's worth every penny...to be honest, you could do the diet, for the most part, without their help, but for me, paying the money and weighing in with the nurses and dr. really forced me to stick to it. If money is tight though, email me and I'll forward the diet to you! cassiadenton@gmail.com Best of luck!!

(ps: if you really want to accelerate the process, and it won't kill you to spend a little dough, I HIGHLY recommend going to the SLC or Orem clinics to ask them all about the Simmeon's diet!!)

Natalie Buchkovich said...

I'm so excited for you Cassia! You have such a cute belly! I hope you are feeling well through you pregnancy. Your husband is getting deployed?!? That really sucks! So are you going to move back to Utah? And you look amazing! Way to go at losing weight. I am interested in your diet. It consists of lot of protein??? We have been trying to have baby #2 for over a year now, and they just found that I have endometriosis. Infertility sucks! And I too seem to just hold on to my weight!

Anonymous said...

I read this blog post a couple of weeks ago and have felt like I should comment ever since. I just found this particular post extremely inspiring. I appreciate you sharing your story and just know that it has helped me out immensely. You've been through a lot but you are better because of it. You look amazing and still have that beautiful smile of yours - for which I am grateful.

Cassia said...

Thanks so much for posting; I will say, that as much as I HATED posting those particularly "Hot" pre-diet photos, I am so glad to be of any help, and especially inspiration to anyone! That was my hope, and the ONLY reason I allowed myself to post them. So, to who ever you are, thank you for the comment!